Leadership is not defined by the title; instead it is personified by each and every selfless act of ours, as we go about our daily routine.

In my first job in corporate world, we were a group of analysts who had started around the same time in a rapidly expanding division. There was a person in the group, who appeared to be more engaged with everyone. He was the one to inquire about your previous job, your fist day at the new work place, your office space and how you were adjusting to it, etc. He was also the one who organized our first offsite lunch and introduced us to each other, even before we could do it ourselves. In essence, he appeared to be most interested in us, the people on the team and appeared to be trusted by all. Needless to say, that he was the unheralded leader of the group and we would all unwittingly look to him to plan our next outing or carry on the conversation, when there was an extended silence at the table. I remember being in awe of his people skills.

More recently, while leading a new product launch, I had pulled together a team of operations, marketing and IT analysts to help build the business case. When I had to shift focus to the marketing plan, I had operations analyst run scenarios on the business case model. In a few days, during the management presentation, I called out the help from the operations analyst and credited him with the good job he did at building the business model. Although impromptu, my gesture was greatly appreciated by this person and he acknowledged how empowered he felt in his role. I remember the episode, not because it was an impromptu call-out, but how good it made me feel somewhere deep inside. It clearly made my associate's day. We get plenty of similar opportunities daily to recognize someone new or junior on the team and help them grow. Sometimes, we just need to shift our focus away from ourselves!

We know good leaders are people oriented and selfless, but there is no rule that "non leaders" can't do it - that is, make a difference! Here's what I have stored away from these musings:
  1. Show genuine interest in your associates and listen to "who they are"
  2. Help your colleagues make new friends and encourage them to participate
  3. Hand out recognition and praise to highlight smallest of contributions
Good leaders start early, and nurture themselves and their surroundings equally. Titles are meant for business cards anyway!